Brothers, I want to say this as a sister whose heart is for you to have the best in the future.  This may sound like an odd question but do you ever think about your future with your future wife?  Do you ever think to yourself, “I want to give my wife the best”  or something along those lines?  Even though it seems like there is plenty of time before marriage and committing yourself to a relationship, this is the time that can be used for growth.  If you want to give your future wife the best, then please strive to be the best that you can be.  I encourage you to use the time you have now to truly seek the Lord so that he may lead you so you will know how to lead your wife.  Take this time to seek the word and dwell in it so that your wife can admire and respect you for reflecting who God is.  Please use this time to grow so that way no girl can ever give you an excuse to not want to be with you.  I pray that people will be able to see Christ in you and because of that, admire and respect you for being a Man of God.  Strive for holiness.  Strive for purity.  Learn how to protect your heart so one day you can protect hers as well.  Learn to resist temptation now so one day you will not be tempted and she will not be tempted by you.  One day in the future, someone is going to depend on you to lead them.  I hope that your heart’s desire is to give them the best you can.  So please brothers, I pray that you strive hard to be a Man of God so that one day, you can help others fall in love with the same God that you are trying to reflect. The time for growth is now.  I know God will use each one of you.  I’ll be praying for you all.  



-Your sister in Christ. 

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